Well, as it stands I was quite happy to call you my girlfriend at the time, even IF I had no idea what to do... had I known then what I know now ;)

As for 'benefit', yes, it probably is a trickle down from Jean's profession.... I could have said luxury, luck, audacity, good fortune, etc. So, choose as you will.

And we WILL be visiting. I just need to figure out werk scheduling and flights, etc.